Losing someone you love is one of the most difficult times in life. Grieving and remembering your loved one is the best way to heal your heart and move forward from the pain of loss. This candle will be made in communication with me to ensure that the memory of those departed is honored in the best way possible. We can include a small jar with the ashes (2 tablespoons worth shipped to me, you must pay shipping) and an item that is of significance to you. The turnaround time for this candle is around 30 days due to the shipping of the ashes and the candle being fully customized by you.
This is a custom memory candle made specifically for you. I can also do small batch orders of three candles. Once you have placed your order I will send you a direct message. You will have the opportunity to completely customize your candle. We will pick a color, or colors, a scent profile, a wax design, crystals and formation, herbs and formation, as well as any other add ins you wish.
For custom candles you must request an intention card in the notes. If you have a general intention I will create a spell card for you, if it is a memory candle I can help create one with you as needed.
I pour on associating moon phases, so we will talk about what moon would be best to pour your particular intention.
Each candle is scented with notes associated with the particular intention, however if you would prefer the candle to be unscented please send me a note with purchase.
Each candle is handmade with 100% soy wax, roughly 12oz (I pour with love but not necessarily with precision), and comes in a glass tumbler.
Because natural ingredients are used, each individual candle is unique and may have slight variations from the picture. Some herbs or botanical elements may come loose during shipping – just scoot them back over to the edge of the glass before lighting your candle.
The first time you burn your candle, make sure you burn it long enough for the pool of melted wax to reach the rim of the glass to avoid “tunneling”.
Please use caution when removing your stone – the stones can get very hot when near the candle flame so please do NOT try to handle them when the candle is lit or has been recently extinguished. I recommend fishing them out of the glass with a disposable spoon (or similar) when the wax is cool-ish but still melted, then wiping thoroughly with a paper towel until clean. Do not try to rinse your stone without first wiping off the wax – cold water may harden the wax onto the stone or hot water may flush the wax down your drain which can cause plumbing issues.
Do not leave a burning candle unattended, and do not burn the candle low enough so that the herbs or botanical elements might catch. Only burn the candle on a heat-resistant surface and please use caution when handling the candle while the candle is lit or recently extinguished as it can get hot.
Custom Memory Candle
Custom orders are not eligible for refunds or returns. Exchanges or replacements will be made on a case by case basis.
Shipping for custom order varies in ship time. Expect 3-14 day processing depending on the design.